Haden's Virtual Delivery Room
On February
16, 2001, the Virtual Delivery Room opened for business. A form was available
where anyone who came to the web site could enter a comment, and all the comments
were displayed like a running conversation.
This function was really just conceived
as a way to keep family and friends up-to-date, but it turned out to be a much
more useful feature: it kept Kitty and Suman occupied while waiting for the
big event, and, with much more participation from family and friends than was
expected, it really turned into a fun chat that helped everyone feel they were
part of the birth, and showed Kitty and Suman how many people out there cared
for them.
Here is the transcription, with a little detail thrown in! The description
is slanted from Steph's point of view for now, but will someday, hopefully, be updated with Suman
and Kitty's recollections. Thanks again
to everyone who participated! This document, and the experience everyone had
as it grew, will hopefully be one of the precious mementos of Haden's birth!

At 11:29 pm, Catherine M. LeGault said: Mama C.
is standing by. i gave birth to Kitty when I was exactly the age she is now.
She was my sixth child and she took four days of off-and-on labor to get here.
worth every minute of it!! I hope we'll be able to say that she was given
an easier way.
At 6:40 am, Bob LeGault said: We're praying for
you Kitty, Suman and ...um, Urk.
At 7:11 am, Steph said: We're connected! More in
a minute...
At 7:13 am, Catherine said: Kitty, Mom is here...Dad
got up at 4:30 instead of his usual 6 A.M. I've got th emusic on...you're
something else, Steph!
At 7:13 am, Steph said: We're in room 54 at OHSU
in beautiful Portland, Oregon. A stream of people have been in and out so
far, taking blood, weighing Kitty, giving her an IV. Suman is taking video
of the whole process, plus the stunning view from up here on pill hill. Now
let's see what Su has to say about the whole thing.
At 7:15 am, Suman said: Hey Mom, You nervous?
At 7:18 am, Catherine said: We'll keep in touch...I
have to fold the wash that Dad did this morning. I actually got three hours
of sleep last night. How did Kit & Su do?
At 7:20 am, Kitty said: I just had an IV(heparin
loc) put in, making it a wee bit tender to type. All 's well so far. So excited
to finally meet the boy on the outside. Also anxious to get a drink of water.
Not allowed to drink anything prior to surgery. My room has a beautiful view
of Portland and the river looking down at OMSI.
At 7:23 am, Steph said: I'll try to take some time
now to describe the room and what's going on. Kiity and Su are inspecting
every cupboard and door. The shower is pretty utilitarian.
At 7:33 am, Steph said: The room is all beige,
with a stylized leaf pattern on the wallpaper, beige and turquoise tapestry
covered pillows and chairs, and a green and mauve border around the top of
the walls, with grape leaves or something like that.
At 7:34 am, Steph said: Suman just got out the
"real" camera, taking some actual film-based pictures for his parents. It's
a smallish room, with a big window, so flash photography is sort of hard.
At 7:34 am, Steph said: Kitty just went to the
bathroom.
At 7:40 am, Kitty said: Prior to checking in to
my room I stopped in at the delivery floor, as directed by the Dr. There I
ran in to Suzie, a nurse who knows Val from her church. She did the baptism
for Michael. LJ and Marisa's boy. This morning at 4am I was awoken by a dream.
In it I was reading a magazine byline where it was written "Rolling Stone
calls Lung Mother the greatest effort to come out of the Pacific Northwest
since Everclear and Pearl Jam" In my sleep state I thought, 'wait, what was
the name of that band?' How ironic and telling: Lung Mother. It was the lung
maturity that determined Urk's fitness to enter the outer world at this early
date.
At 7:42 am, Steph said: There's no coffee here.
Su and I are bummed.
At 7:43 am, Steph said: Su is videotaping the clock.
Kitty is calling her Mom on the cell phone, but apparently she's online..
At 7:43 am, Steph said: Everyone seems to be holding
up well.. Su is thirsty too, he hasn't had a drink since Kitty's last one.
Isn't that sweet?
At 7:44 am, Steph said: I can see Kitty's butt
everytime she turns around in that hospital gown.
At 7:50 am, Steph said: Kitty's talking about work,
and Su is rubbing her shoulders. We're all watching the downtown traffic.
What an amazing view we have from up here!
At 7:52 am, Steph said: Nurse Kristin has apparently
forgotten to bring Kitty's nametag. Kitty says she needs one so they can identify
her in the morgue later. Ah, the black humor people use when something important
is about to happen! Suman is going to find out what happened. He would have
called, but the phone line is tied up by this laptop.
At 7:53 am, Steph said: Kitty is talking to her
sister on the phone, I think it's Val. Yes, she's telling her the story about
the person who did Michael's baptism.
At 7:55 am, Steph said: Suman just checked out
the "catering." I brought lots of snacks, because they said to in childbirth
class. Su says I brought all the right food. We have beef jerky, strawberry
fig newtons, chocolate shortbread cookies, two kind of chip-and-dip, some
candy bars, and some tropical lifesavers for Kitty.
At 7:56 am, Steph said: Now the traffic's getting
thick.
At 7:56 am, Catheine said: Su asks am I nervous.
All I can say is that my nervous system won't let me think of anything else.
In days gone by I'd have been on my third Manhattan.
At 7:57 am, Suman said: If it weren't this early
in the morning, I'd be on my third manhattan!
At 7:58 am, Doreen said: K & S. Deep breaths, both
of you. Soon you'll be in heaven, looking down at your own angel. I hope he
pukes on you for calling him Urk up til now. Much love to you both..err..all
three of you.
At 7:59 am, Steph said: Su and Kitty are figuring
out what time it is in India. Suman's wondering if he should call his parents.
No, they'll wait, because they're probably asleep.
At 8:00 am, Suman said: What do you think he'll
do to us when we name him Urk for real?
At 8:06 am, Kitty said: Steph stepped out for a
smoke and some coffee. Not because she had to but because, as the Doula, she's
obliged to provide comfort for the parents. That selfless sweetheart. I also
think our anxious anticipation was making her nervous. If I still smoked,
I'd have one.
At 8:09 am, Catherine said: Should I not stay online
all the time. I'm sorry I missed Kit's phone call. I'll close off, get a cup
of coffee, and wait for another call...if it doesn't interfere with the schedule.
At 8:20 am, Steph said: Dr. Vincent is here. He's
telling us about the website he made for his wedding. And, discussing the
upcoming procedure a bit.
At 8:22 am, Steph said: I'm sorry, Catherine, I
didn't mean to sow confusion about the phone call!
At 8:22 am, Steph said: Whoops, his name is Dr.
Vinson. I've been spelling it wrong all along.
At 8:26 am, Steph said: I found a smoking area,
for my awful habit. The people inside the smoking room said something about
our awful weather, and I said "no, it's a beautiful day! We have a baby coming."
They looked at me, smoking, and I said "Oh, it's not ME." And then one lady
asked if it was my daughter having the baby! Hmph, I'm only 30. Hehehehe
At 8:27 am, Doreen said: If you do name him Urk
for real, I'm sure he'll be overjoyed, and hardly ever puke on you anymore.
I would guess it will also take until he's 8 to sleep through the night, but
that's a small sacrifice, right? *grin* Not much longer now..how you all holding
up?
At 8:27 am, Steph said: Kitty's on the phone with
Catherine now.
At 8:27 am, Val said: OK, now that I've caught
up on the reading: I left a message for Eljay and Marisa to check out the
chat site. I emailed Catherine to hit the "refresh" button. And I'm just so
excited this is happening! And, Kit and Su, the heaven Doreen refers to is
just metaphoric, so don't think you're getting out of any diapers or little
league or fender benders :-)
At 8:38 am, Catherine said: here I sit, with my
coffee and cheeses sandwich after having talked to Kit on her cerll phone
and getting Val's e-mail telling me how to use the "refresh" button. This
is mind-boggling.
At 8:38 am, Kitty said: The doctor was just in
and said that the procedure for now is to tell me it's only going to be a
few more minutes, for a few more hours. Then he noticed that they left my
tourniquet on from putting in my IV an hour ago.
At 8:38 am, Dori said: What's going on? You left
off at 8:27. Any word from the Doc yet?
At 8:38 am, Catherine said: here I sit, with my
coffee and cheeses sandwich after having talked to Kit on her cerll phone
and getting Val's e-mail telling me how to use the "refresh" button. This
is mind-boggling.
At 8:40 am, Dori said: Please give Suman and Kit
my best. They will make wonderful parents.
At 8:40 am, Steph said: They may let us take the
laptop into the delivery room! I doubt they will have a phone line we can
plug into, but who knows! We'll be taking pictures, at least.
At 8:41 am, Suman said: Thanks for Costco, Dori!
Send us a bill.
At 8:42 am, Suman said: The doctor says Kate can't
eat anything until after she farts. True story.
At 8:43 am, Steph said: Apologies to everyone who
sat through the 11 minute silence at 8:27. My fingers got tired. :)
At 8:44 am, Steph said: Suman is trying to call
his mom, but accidentally called Brian. Now AT&T is calling him.
At 8:45 am, Steph said: Nurse Christina is here.
She says everything's pretty much in place. She doesn't know what time they'll
be ready, but says the first surgery of the day (which Kitty is) is about
10 am.
At 8:46 am, Nurse Christina said: Good luck!
At 8:48 am, Steph said: Nurse Christina just referred
to Suman as "your husband, I'm assuming.." Su says "I'm her cousin. We're
from Kentucky, we do it like that with our cousins."
At 8:51 am, Steph said: Every nurse that comes
in here asks the same questions. Shouldn't they be writing this down in some
central area?
At 8:51 am, Steph said: Suman's mom's phone line
is busy.
At 8:53 am, Steph said: Kitty is starving and thirsty!
I can't believe we have another hour to go, at best. Nurse Christina told
us that for "scheduled" C-sections, there's usually no wait. At which point
Su told her this WAS scheduled, which confused her. No, really, everyone here
seems competent, I'm just relating details.
At 8:57 am, Steph said: Nurse Christina is answering
all Kitty's questions. Suman has a little day bed here that they're going
to bring sheets for.
At 8:57 am, Kitty said: Urk's got the hiccups.
At 8:57 am, Steph said: Now we have nothing to
do but wait for an hour.
At 9:03 am, Steph said: We're listening to music
now. I made a Birthday CD last night, we're listening to "With Arms Wide Open"
by Creed, the acoustic version. It's making Kitty cry.
At 9:04 am, Steph said: I forgot to mention that
I brought granola bars. Kitty's looking through the food covetously.
At 9:04 am, Steph said: Suman is videotaping the
food.
At 9:05 am, Catherine said: At last I figured out
the "refresh" button without going through what you wouldn't believe I've
been going through to get back to where I just was! Kit, in every battle -
your faather has often said - you "hurry up and wait."
At 9:05 am, Catherine said: At last I figured out
the "refresh" button without going through what you wouldn't believe I've
been going through to get back to where I just was! Kit, in every battle -
your faather has often said - you "hurry up and wait."
At 9:06 am, Steph said: Now we're listening to
"When I Grow Up" by Garbage. Get it? It's a theme CD.
At 9:06 am, Kitty said: I picked a heck of a time
to give up smoking crack.
At 9:06 am, Catherine said: I guess I haven't solved
it yet. Why do I get myself twice?
At 9:07 am, Steph said: I can't believe my husband
Peter hasn't logged in yet! He must be working hard.
At 9:07 am, Val said: Tic toc! When did you get
to eat last, Kit? Su, are you fasting also? If Su farts can he say it was
Kit? How can she fart without eating something? Inquiring minds want to know.
At 9:07 am, Karen said: Wishing you well, but I'm
not likely to participate much. It's a little weird for old fashioned me.
Too voyeristic, like those intrusive tv shows. I'll just let you do your thing,
but know that my heart is with you. I love you. Sounds like you're having
fun. XOXOXOXO
At 9:08 am, Steph said: Now we're listening to
Frank Sinatra sing "Happy Birthday."
At 9:10 am, Catherine said: Hey Karen, I have a
picture on our dresser of you holding newborn Catlyn. It came waith your description
of how everyone in the family took part in the birth! How oldfaashioned can
you be?
At 9:12 am, Steph said: Catherine, after you click
"post comment", then click the refresh button on the page. When you just want
to check for new comments, click the refresh button at the top of the screen.
Hope this isn't too complex! We can remove any duplicate entries later if
you'd like.
At 9:13 am, Kitty said: How do I fart without eating?
It's all about peristalsis.
At 9:14 am, Steph said: Kitty is wondering whom
to ask about her lactation specialist.
At 9:17 am, Steph said: Karen, Kitty says you don't
have to participate if you don't want. Also, she wants me to tell you that
I have congenital anosmia, i.e. total lack of sense of smell, like you. :)
At 9:18 am, Steph said: Now we're listening to
"Birthday" by the Beatles. Before this was "Into the Mystic" by Van Morrison.
Kitty saw two cars almost have a fender bender right below this room.
At 9:19 am, Suman said: Where's all the s**t we
can steal? There's nothing good in here.
At 9:21 am, Steph said: Nurse Christina is here
to start Kitty on some fluids. Good! She was feeling very dehydrated.
At 9:22 am, Steph said: Bed goes up, bed goes down!
That's a quote from the Simpsons. Pete will understand it.
At 9:23 am, Steph said: Nurse Christina says we
only have 15 minutes to go! And that we'll be downstairs (in surgery/recovery)
for about 2 hours.
At 9:24 am, karen said: You go girl! (I'm sure
that was SOMEONE's current phrase they're most tired of hearing)
At 9:24 am, karen said: You go girl! (I'm sure
that was SOMEONE's current phrase they're most tired of hearing)
At 9:25 am, Steph said: Nurse Christina asked if
Kitty wants to walk to surgery, or have a wheelchair. Kitty says walk. Now
we're listening to "Cat's in the Cradle." Does anyone know who this song is
by? We can't remember.
At 9:27 am, Steph said: Now we're listening to
Marilyn Monroe sing "Happy Birthday Mr. President." This is my prophetic statement.
At 9:29 am, Steph said: Kitty is laying on the
bed now, being hydrated with a saline IV. She says she feels less thirsty
just knowing she's getting fluids.
At 9:30 am, Steph said: I got coffee for Su and
I, and now I have to go to the bathroom (talk about details!).. so there will
be no updates for 3-4 minutes. :)
At 9:33 am, Suman said: I think these are the longest
minutes I've ever spent.
At 9:36 am, karen said: So, Su, are you going to
be in there .... rooting around in Kit's open cavity, biting the umbilical
cord, eating the placenta?
At 9:38 am, Dori said: Hang in there dad, pretty
soon you will sleep deprived, midnight feedings and lots of dirty diapers.
The best thing about all of this is that you will really enjoy it. There is
nothing in the world like little babies. Sure wish I could pop some more out.
I will follow the site all day
At 9:38 am, Val said: Are you in the "OHSU Hospital"
or the "Mark Hatfield" off Sam Jackson Park Rd, or "Doernbecher" off SW Veteran's
Rd?
At 9:40 am, Suman said: Of course I'll be in there--the
OR's got the largest cooler in the entire hospital.
At 9:41 am, Val said: Cat's in the Cradle by James
Taylor?
At 9:41 am, Suman said: We're in OHSU--14th floor.
At 9:42 am, dori said: Kitty, I can't forget you.
Before you know it you will be back in your room with everyone you hold dear.
I am so looking forward to seeing the baby. I wish you my very best and hurry
up and fart.
At 9:43 am, Kitty said: Wrong Val!!
At 9:44 am, Val said: No no it's Harry Chapin!!!
At 9:45 am, Kitty said: Bingo!
At 9:49 am, Steph said: There, Suman gave me the
computer back. I wasn't actually in the bathroom the whole time.
At 9:50 am, Val said: I had to call Kate out of
a meeting to get the Chapin answer. It's why I married her :-)
At 9:51 am, Val said: Do you feel dopey yet Kit?
At 9:51 am, Steph said: Right now, Suman is feeling
"impatient. Let's pull the trigger on this thing. Let's light this candle."
At 9:51 am, Steph said: Nurse Christina said at
9:23 am that there was only 15 minutes to wait. Poor nurse, most of her patients
can't pinpoint her statements with that precision.
At 9:52 am, dori said: Kitty, I can't forget you.
Before you know it you will be back in your room with everyone you hold dear.
I am so looking forward to seeing the baby. I wish you my very best and hurry
up and fart.
At 9:54 am, Steph said: Right now, Kitty is feeling
"pretty content, because I've got this nice self-contained package and he's
just moving around, and I'm being hydrated. They can come get me in a hour,
I've got my family and friends here online. I was a lot more impatient when
I thought it was gonna be at 8:30 and it was 8:45, now I'm pretty content."
At 9:55 am, Steph said: Suman is videotaping this
gross discussion about placenta and incisions and blood and stuff.
At 9:55 am, Steph said: The doctor who will be
performing the C-section just came in. He's describing (again) what will happen.
At 9:56 am, karen said: All this waiting is the
perfect time for some Zen moments. Breathe, feel, enjoy. Everything is happening
just as it should. These moments are all you have right now. You are living
a miracle. Breathe. Feel. Be Thankful. Breathe those long, slow, loving breaths.
Hold hands. Look into one another's eyes. You are magic!!
At 9:56 am, dori said: sorry for all the comments.
One thing I need is Kate's last name. Can you let me know please?
At 9:57 am, Steph said: The doctor is talking about
what might go wrong, and what they can do. Worst case scenario, he says, is
if the uterus doesn't shrink down after the baby is removed, which is necessary
to stop the bleeding, in which case they would have to perform a hysterectomy
to save her life. But that's a very slim chance, of course.
At 9:58 am, Steph said: Her last name is LeGault.
At 9:58 am, Steph said: His name is Dr. Gravett.
At 9:59 am, karen said: OK, you're sure it's not
Dr. Grabbit? Tell me I'm not the first one to think that up!
At 10:00 am, Steph said: His
name, meaning the doctor...
At
10:00 am, Steph said: Much general laughter, Karen!
At
10 am, we found out that Steph had forgotten to add leading zeros to the hour
when these comments get posted, and therefore, it wouldn't sort right. It
should have been '09' comes before '10' but instead it was '9' comes after
'10.' Alphabetically, anyway. So, suddenly posts seemed to disappear, though
they were really just appearing way down on the page. Steph started applying
a fix, and said "Gosh, I hope I get this fixed before they call you for
surgery!" Of course, they immediately called. The following comments
came in while everyone packed up and went down to the recovery room, to begin
prepping for surgery. At 10:02
am, Bink said: How
long does a C section take?
At 10:03 am, Shag said: Get Dr. Grabbit and Nurse
Crotchit in there NOW !! I love you Kittyyyyyyy, oh yes I doooooo.
At 10:07 am, Val said: Is it time yet?
At 10:10 am, Bink said: Hi Val. I'm on my lunch
hour and isn't this cool waiting for our nephew to be born? Did someone say
10:15 Pacific was the scheduled time?
At 10:13 am, Catherine said: I don't know how many
of the family have been told of this procedure; so I sent out a brief e-mail
to most of them, telling them the address of this fantastic web-site. I don't
think duplication is bad.
At 10:20 am, Catherine said: My last message seems
to have disappeared. Has the equipment moved to the delivery room? I just
wanted to say I aent thhis address to the rest of the family just in case
they don't have it. I didn't want them to miss out on the "fun."
Once
she knew where everyone would be, Steph ran back to the 14th floor and tried
to fix the site. There wasn't enough time, so she packed up the laptop (anticipating
more waiting before surgery) and went back down. She reconnected, but only
had time to send the following post before having to put on her bunny suit.
At 10:21
am, Steph said: Darnit,
technical difficulties! Trying to get it to sort right. Also, Kitty and Su
are downstairs!! That's why the delay. We're going to have to stop posting
for a bit! You guys keep posting all you like, though I'm sorry the new posts
won't appear at the top for a while. I'll fix this ASAP, really. We're in
the home stretch!!
The
conversation continued while the surgery got underway.
At 10:21
am, Bink said: Lunch
hour over. I'll check back on break. Hope it's going well Kitty. Love you!
At 10:25 am, Catherine said: This is the third
time I've written a comment that does not get immediately posted. Is something
happening? I e-mailed the family to get online at this web-site...I don't
knowhow many of them have been told of it. Nervous? who's nervous. Kit, remember
how your mother used to get "the runs" every time you kids came home late
from a date? Well, II almost didn't make it to the bathroom just now. Who"s
nervous?
At 10:26 am, Shag said: You picked a fine time
to leave me Lucille. STEPH !! I'm having a stroke here!! C'mon Kittybob. You
can do it.
At 10:33 am, karen said: Did this stop working
or has kitty gone down that long hall.....
At 10:47 am, Catherine said: Here are two "Kitty
quotes" that show how she feels about being pregnant: Kitty wrote this to
her niece, Catlyn, about a part of "Catherine's Story": "She recently sent
me the transcription of all seven of her child birth stories. It was a riveting
read that in my current condition left me in tears What's being pregnant like????
" Knock on wood, this is the coolest thing I have ever experienced. This is
something I've heard others talk about and I would just shrug it off and disregard
their comments as self justifying hogwash. Surely there are hormones involved
in this overwhelming sense of euphoria accompanying my current state, but
nonetheless, its better than any drug I've ever taken. Some of it is the physical
sensation of the parasite growing within, much of it is the idea of conception
and creation as a miracle of biology. Honestly I still can't get over it."
At 11:58 am, Catherine said: I'm getting very sleepy.
I will turn this off for a while. With my luck, everything will happen while
I'm off-line. Hang in there, Kit and Su and Steph (and Urk, of course.) My
love is still online.
Meanwhile,
back in the hospital, here's what was happening:
Suman
and Steph got into the bunny suits. Kitty was taken into the operating theater,
and Suman and Steph tried to follow, but were sort of in the way. An orderly
(probably) watched them mill around, and then gently took them back to the
recovery room, to wait until the epidural had been administered. Time ticked
by again, and Steph tried to get the site back up, but her first attempt didn't
work like she thought it should. The orderly came back and said that the epidural
had been administered, but that they should wait further until they were sure
it had taken effect. More waiting. Finally, they were allowed in. They were
shown where to stand: Suman sitting next to Kitty's head, Steph standing behind.
About
a dozen people bustled around, all in blue. They were checking supplies, setting
up equipment, monitoring Kitty and the baby. Kitty was shaved a little, and
she said it sounded like a lawn mower. Then some yellow liquid was wiped all
over her belly, and a drape hung that would hide the operation from the squeamish
civilians. Though there was some laughing and joking around, it was hard to
relax with all those serious medical people concentrating on the job. Finally,
the operation began.
Suman
seemed a bit dazed, and Steph starting asking Kitty about her maternity leave,
to distract her from thinking about the scalpel. She pretended not to know
that Kitty's probation period at work had been waived in order to keep the
conversation going. There was picture taking and videotaping going on, anything
to pass the time, really. After what seemed like forever but was really only
about 10 minutes, the intensity level in the room went way up.
"We've
got the baby!" Steph had taken over the video camera as Suman wanted
to concentrate on Kitty and the baby, and suddenly there came a faint gurgle,
then a cry. Steph was afraid to peer around the drape, as there are some things
you can't un-see, but forgot when the baby started crying louder. Watching
through the video camera viewfinder, she saw a red, sqalling baby handed to
a nurse waiting with a towel. He was rushed to a table right behind Steph,
but so many people clustered around him, it was very hard to get a shot. The
camera was entirely forgotten, and only video was being filmed. The baby was
cleaned, his mouth cleared, lots of medical things were happening to him,
and he cried lustily the whole time. Suman looked pole-axed, and Kitty couldn't
really see anything at first. Steph was closest, and could see how hairy he
was. She told Kitty and Suman, "He's got sideburns! He looks like Elvis."
Finally,
they held up the baby for all to see. They swaddled him and handed him to
Suman, and they both forgot anyone else was in the room. The baby was making
little noises, and Kitty murmured to him. Putting in the sutures started to
get a little painful, and Kitty started her deep breathing, and Steph and
Suman encouraged her to relax. Cleaning up from the surgery was messy and
icky - The suction tube ran right between Suman and Steph and there was lots
of blood going through it. Kitty asked Dr. Jessica if she had lost lots of
blood, and was assured hat everything was fine. The drape was lowered, and
everyone could see the staples holding Kitty's belly together, but she was
covered up before anyone could get a picture of the Frankenstein moment. Steph
asked a nurse to uncover it for a minute, but her hands weren't sterile, and
by the time someone else could have done it, it was forgotten. A gurney was
wheeled in, and Suman stood up with the baby. He and Steph were gently shooed
out of the room, and Suman hesitated, not sure if he should take the baby
with him. Steph told him "Go on, he's yours, take him." They went
to the recovery room, and Kitty was wheeled in right behind.
Steph
stripped off the bunny suit and tried to fix the website again, panicked about
the people not knowing what was going on. Suman held the baby, and Kitty was
hooked up to the morphine. Steph's second fix didn't work either, so she determined
to go home, where she had better tools available, plus could upload the pictures
and sound recording made in the delivery room, and so typed the following.
At 12:09
pm, Steph said: He's
here!!!!!!!
At 12:10 pm, Steph said: He is 5 lbs 11 oz, and
he looks like Elvis :)
At 12:11 pm, Steph said: We got tons of pictures
and video and sound recordings.. as soon as Kitty says she can do without
me for a minute, I'll rush home to post everything! He's adorable and everybody
is healthy!
At 12:12 pm, Brian said: Do they allow kegs in
the delivery room?
At 12:16 pm, Steph said: whoops.. I'm running home
now, and will e-mail everyone the second this is back up and working, plus
post the photos etc!! Kitty and the baby will be going to sleep now, and Suman
will begin making calls. Talk to you all soon!
Steph
made sure she would not be missed, then drove home to fix the site. People
kept posting messages. At 12:18
pm, Shag said: Congratulations
you new little "Family." I could NOT be happier! Kitty and Suman, and Little
Urk, you all deserve the very best of the best!!! (sigh of relief)
At 12:21 pm, Heather said: Congrats!!!!!!!!! I'm
so excited for you both and happy to hear that he's almost 6lbs. can't waite
to see him. Be sure to tell us the name. Love you both and your new son.
At 12:31 pm, Sowmya, Sriram said: CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
What is his name?
At 1:02 pm, Val said: We're getting anxious out
here.
At 1:21 pm, Catherine said: I just woke up from
a small nap, and ,sure enough, it happened while I was asleep! I cut and pasted
into my PC the few "chats" that told of his arrival and weight. Oh,Kitty,
sweet Kitty, sleep and dream and shed all the worry we held hostage in our
hearts!
At 1:21 pm, Catherine said: I just woke up from
a small nap, and ,sure enough, it happened while I was asleep! I cut and pasted
into my PC the few "chats" that told of his arrival and weight. Oh,Kitty,
sweet Kitty, sleep and dream and shed all the worry we held hostage in our
hearts!
At 1:28 pm, Val said: I missed something. when
did he arrive? what did he weigh?
At 1:31 pm, karen said: Am I doing something wrong?
I haven't seen any news between 10 and 1:21. Is Catherine not the ONLY one
napping. I understand Kitty wasn't dozing off. I didn't see any posting about
arrival and weight. Anyone out there.
At 1:31 pm, karen said: Hi Val. Guess I'm not alone.
Wake up Steph!
At 1:37 pm, Steph said: As you can imagine, things
got pretty hectic there for a minute!
Steph
had finally fixed the site, and began explaining what was going on, and posting
pictures. At 1:37
pm, Steph said: I'm
here, I'm here! Whew, some fast code fixes there! Everything should display
correctly now.
At 1:38 pm, Steph said: So, would everyone like
me to first describe what happened, or instead first post the PICTURES??
At 1:40 pm, judi_jeff said: Good luck! I hope all
goes quickly.
At 1:41 pm, Steph said: 
At 1:41 pm, Steph said: Here he is!!
At 1:43 pm, karen said: Do what you do best Steph.
This is so generous of you to provide all these months and hours of technical
expertise. Sure makes for a different kind of experience. You've done a wonderful
job. Thanks. Big kisses to the three most hard workers - S, K and U! I'll
call brother Chuck!
At 1:43 pm, Steph said: 
At 1:43 pm, Val said: OK I'm back with the program,
got all missed postings and HOLY WOW CONGRATULATIONS KIT AND SU! And let's
here it for the Doula to end all Doula's, Steph! Great job!!! clapclapclapclapclap
:-D
At 1:44 pm, Steph said: I'm also fast forwarding
through the recording I made and should have his first cries posted within
a few minutes.
At 1:45 pm, karen said: I have a good imagination.
I'll pretend to smell and hear. No nose. No sound card. Again, Well done!
At 1:48 pm, Steph said: 
At 1:49 pm, Val said: He's so CUTE! Beautifully
arching nostrils, Su's pouty lower lip, and Kit's cat-like upper lip, beautiful
browline, wise forehead, gummy eyes -- oops, I guess that's medicine. He's
really beautiful you guys. And now Regan's not the littlest baby; she out-weighed
Urk by 2 ounces. How are Mommy and Daddy doing???
At 1:49 pm, Steph said: 
At 1:50 pm, karen said: I do have to say, I'm not
getting NEAR my normal work production out of this day. Whoopee! Friday, 3
day weekend, payday, lunch out with the gang.... and a NEW BABE! Couldn't
top that.... Oh wait, a video, martini and fire in the fire place with my
sweet family tonight! Now THIS is a FRIDAY!!
At 1:50 pm, Steph said: When I left (I'm at home
as the connection at the hospital was prohibitive) Kitty had just gotten her
morphine, and Su was looking stunned but happy.. see the next photo..
At 1:51 pm, Steph said: 
At 1:52 pm, Karen said: Great pics! The one of
Kitty and Babe is SO precious. I'm crying here.... XO
At 1:53 pm, Val said: The whole office thinks you
have a beautiful baby but the resemblance to Elvis eludes us so far. *grin*
At 1:54 pm, kk said: OK - Su and son look great
together, too.
At 2:01 pm, Kate D. said: All the PCC folks here
(at the Youth Opportunity Center) think he's beautiful. I cried when I say
the picture with Kit and baby! I'm soooo happy he looks so good - - Congrats!!
At 2:01 pm, Steph said: And here is the sound!
Sorry for the quality, but it was a cheap recorder in a noisy room. -->The
baby's first cries <--
At 2:02 pm, Steph said: He's a hairy baby, he
has sideburns. That's where Elvis came from.
At 2:03 pm, Steph said: Okay all, I'm heading back
to the hospital! More updates from there... talk amongst yourself. :) Isn't
this FUN?? :)
At 2:03 pm, Heather said: Suman you look like a
pro. He's beautiful:) Hope you are feeling great Kate. Ask for lots of drugs
and help. That's what they are there for.
At 2:05 pm, Steph said: And.. thank you for all
the compliments. I do appreciate it, but it's been a labor of love for two
(now three) really really nice people.
Steph
drove back to the hospital, calling her husband, Peter, and giving him an
update. By the time she made it back, everyone was back in the nice room on
the 14th floor, and Val was there. At 2:07
pm, Karen said: My
co-worker said "She looks so YOUNG" about Kitty. I said "She IS. She's MY
age!":
At 2:13 pm, Heather said: Steph thank you so much
for doing this. We all want to be so involved and this really alows us to
get right in there and see everything.
At 3:09 pm, Peter said: Congrats guys, cute kid,
good voice....So, when's the next one?
At 3:24 pm, Steph said: Well, we're back at the
hospital. I got to meet Val! She was here visiting by the time I made it back.
At 3:48 pm, Suman said: I have beer and champagne--but
nobody to drink it with.
At 3:49 pm, Val said: How long is Dude?
At 3:49 pm, Suman said: Somebody needs to step
up...
At 3:53 pm, Heather said: Are you guys accepting
visitors later tonight. Tyler is begging to see is new buddy, and to bring
Suman some food.
At 4:01 pm, Suman said: Visitors are OK. Food is
OK too.
At 4:04 pm, Suman said: Dude is as yet unmeasured.
At 4:05 pm, Suman said: P.S. Can somebody get me
a little cooler and some ice?
At 4:07 pm, karen said: Oh, SuMAN! I wish I could
come pop a cork with ya'll! I'll toast you over a Martini tonight! Love ya.
WELL DONE!
At 4:09 pm, karen said: Put those nurses to work
serving you. Ice Chips! Lots of Ice Chips. And a spare bedpan.... I'm planning
on making Biriani this weekend. I've been doing some exotic cooking every
week with my new India cookbook.
At 4:09 pm, Heather said: no frig???? I will give
you a call before I come to see what all you need but I can bring a cooler
and ice. How does Old Chicago pizza sound? Maybe a chicao 7
At 4:11 pm, Heather said: Would Kate like anything?
I don't know if she can eat yet. But anything at all.
At 4:26 pm, Suman said: Heather whatever you can
get is fine--a sandwich or anything. Kate can't even drink water so she's
gnawing on ice chips.
At 4:27 pm, Doreen said: He's beautiful! Congratulations
K & S...good work!
At 4:28 pm, Catherine said: I found - and printed
- the "He's Here!" picture. Val said she saw one of Kitty. I could find just
this one of the baby. I guess we're all exhausted - and happy.
At 4:29 pm, Catherine said: I found - and printed
- the "He's Here!" picture. Val said she saw one of Kitty. I could find just
this one of the baby. I guess we're all exhausted - and happy.
At 4:33 pm, karen said: packing up to go home myself.
I'll check back in a couple hours. Chuck was very excited, and I left Catlyn
the web info. See ya tonight. XXXXXXXXXXOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
At 4:36 pm, Steph said: Catherine, if you scroll
further down this page, you can see the rest of the pictures! :)
At 4:38 pm, Kitty said: For someone who was too
old fashioned to participate in this, you did pretty good, Karen!
At 4:38 pm, Steph said: The baby is out getting
measured and fingerprinted right now. We'll have all his vital stats within
an hour!
At 4:43 pm, Steph said: The Belgian pain management
specialst just came in.. she sounds like Bridget Bardot! What an accent! Her
name is Dr. Isabelle Vanden Berghe.
At 4:47 pm, Steph said: For the record, Sweet Pea
Josie called today at 4, Michael called at 4:45, and Kitty left a message
for Lonie between the two.
At 4:47 pm, karen said: It's like a car accident!
At 4:48 pm, Steph said: Dr. VanArsdale just came
in to check on Kitty. Everything is still fine.
At 4:51 pm, Steph said: My husband, Pete, was on
his way out to visit, but went to the wrong hospital. He just called to ask
where we were. And he's the one who gave me directions this morning! :)
At 4:58 pm, Steph said: Just so everyone knows,
I'm going to post the rest of the pictures tonight from home. I got 65 or
so on my camera alone, and Su had his video camera running, so there's plenty
to publish. But, tonight I';; put up my photos (not all 65 - some won't be
as good as others, though we should get a good 30 out of them).. plus a narrative
of what happened during the hour plus we were incommunicado. I'll need time
to do it, and a real computer.. these laptops are okay for location work,
but for serious coding, one needs her real computer!
At 5:17 pm, Steph said: Baby just came back from
being admitted.. he's 19 inches long. Good size for being 4 weeks early! Val
and Kate and Peter are here, plus Kitty, Suman, and the baby.. this room is
getting crowded!
At 5:22 pm, Sriram said: Well done Kate and Suman.
He looks soooo cute. Suman, don't worry, he wont break.
At 5:24 pm, Sriram said: Suman, in your own words.
HOW DOES IT FEEL?
At 5:32 pm, Suman said: Feels unreal.
At 5:37 pm, Catherine said: This very sleepy and
twelve-times a grandma signs off. Kitty and Suman and their dear litle one,
good night! You have blessed us in a very special way. Sleep well!
At 5:39 pm, Uncle Ramoo Aunty Lakshmi said: Suman,
Kate - Job well done !!! Very pretty kid. He is a sub-junior SAM. God bless.
At 6:36 pm, Uncle Geoff said: This will be the
most exciting time of your lives. Enjoy and congratulations!
Peter,
Kate, and Val had joined everyone in the room by now, and it looked like more
were coming. Steph and Peter went home, and Steph posted pictures.
At 8:21
pm, Steph said: My
gosh, I'm exhausted and all I did was watch. Peter and I left at about 6:45,
as people called in and wanted to drop in. Hope the pizza was good! Thanks
for feeding everyone, Heather. Pete stopped on the way home and bought me
a thermos, Kitty, isn't that sweet? But he wants to borrow it to go climbing
tomorrow. :) So I won't be bringing coffee, Su, but I'll go get it during
the day again. Sleep well, everyone!! You all three deserve a sound rest.
At 8:26 pm, Steph said: Kitty, re your post at
8:06 am, you weren't making me nervous. I just HAVE to have coffee in the
morning. :) Actually, I was feeling a little bad, typing away while you guys
suffered. :)
At 8:56 pm, Steph said: One more note before I
turn off this Virtual Delivery Room (ooh, I love getting the last word!)..
First off, I didn't anticipate that this chat feature would keep Kitty and
Suman occupied while they waited in nervous anticipation, but it did, and
if this web site did any good today, that was it. Second (two last words!)
THANK YOU SO MUCH to everyone who logged in! It was so much fun, trying to
keep everyone informed of the action! We had some technical difficulties,
but it all worked out in the end.. well, I mean, of course it did, since the
baby is here and healthy, and that matters more than any web site. But I know
that K and S really loved hearing from everyone during the day, and your participation
really enhanced the whole event. I'm going to shut down this function now,
but please feel free to leave any other comments in the guestbook.
We did it, everyone!! Now, to start documenting Day 2....
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